My Magic Bytes

When you stop living for the future

[This article was first published on Coffee times Substack.]

Start living today.

The fun part about me, I take things lightly. I try to live in the moment.

I wake up every morning as if today may be my last opportunity on this beautiful planet. This helps me to stay grounded. And let go of everything that doesn’t feel good for me and others. And breathe freely.

I am incapable of sulking, complaining, or holding grudges.

Even when life throws lemons at me, I make lemonades. With strawberry flavor. Because I like adding colors and flavors. Both to lemonade and life!

Here is the funny part: My unyielding attitude towards life challenges is misinterpreted as escapism and irresponsible behavior by some people.

I used to think, they are tired of me brimming with joy even during the most trying times.

But the truth is that the same people are also the ones who refuse to live in the present. Because they are busy planning for their future.

I can’t help but wonder how they could not render such positivity [their assumption about living longer] towards living now.

Don’t let people who are living their nightmare tell you that you can’t live your dream -Unknown

Here’s what I do every day to fall in love

• The first and foremost thing that tremendously helped me with this “NOW” mindset is to stop saving every dime for the future. And start spending some money on what I enjoy doing now.
• The money from my paycheck is divided into three different categories: “Spend,” “Share,” and “Save.” My gym membership with a personal trainer, Medium Membership fee, Regular family vacations, Year-end trips with extended families cannot be compromised! I share by giving to people in need and donating to charity. And save the remaining.
• I don’t wait until tomorrow to use what I have today! Until a few years back, I saved my special dresses for occasions. Mark my calendar and wait for the day to come. I don’t do it anymore. Now, I pick my special days. The high energy in my days is enough reason to celebrate. On those days, I dress up even though I have nowhere to show up! And click pictures like crazy! Creating delightful memories that can’t wait until tomorrow.
• I text random appreciation notes to my friends and family to let them know I care. This alone has done wonders to my relationships. In bridging any gaps and making the bonds stronger than before! ❤️
• I can’t wait until tomorrow to let my kids play adults. I involve them in the decision-making process now. The recent conversation with my 7-year-old daughter is something I will proudly wear on my mommy crown. I was in a dilemma about continuing my full-time job in the world pandemic. When asked, My daughter’s re-assuring response made my entire year: “Mommy, you are the best! I think you should continue to work. You can do both!”
• Last but not least: Life hides surprises in unexpected places. Sometimes, it shines on me in the form of a rainbow. The bird watching me from my window is a sign, I am being noticed. Every being around me shimmers with so much beauty when I care to look deeply. To unveil the magic around me, I need to live my dreams today like there is no tomorrow!

Like an art, Life gets better when we practice living every day!

Every day is a chance to create meaning in our lives. It is immensely satisfying to spread love and kindness. To know that our existence has a reach beyond us.

To be creative means to be in love with Life -Osho.

I would love to hear from you about how you practice living in the moment. Please share it in the comments.

© Tamil, 2022