Category: Marriage

  • My First Performance Review After Marriage

    My First Performance Review After Marriage

    Six months into our marriage, I asked my husband to give me a performance rating based on how well I did with household chores, taking care of the house, and him. Well, not to forget my smooth(?) transition into his family. His rating rather disappointed me. He said I am only at the “meets expectations”…

  • Not Being a Jerk Doesn’t Make Him a Hero

    Not Being a Jerk Doesn’t Make Him a Hero

    I’m tired of my wins becoming his trophies When I started waking up early to run, everyone, including my husband, was shocked. He had only seen the night owl version of me, so he was mind-blown seeing me voluntarily wake up before sunrise. Soon, the comments from my friends and his co-workers followed: “You get…

  • His Five Words Broke My Heart but Also Set Me Free

    His Five Words Broke My Heart but Also Set Me Free

    How one sentence changed everything I believed about love, self-worth, and emotional freedom. Photo by guille pozzi on Unsplash He looked at me and said, “Not everything is about you.” I froze. Wait, what? If you love me, isn’t everything about me? Isn’t that the golden rule of love? We were still in our early twenties.…