Tag: relationships

  • The Kind of Heartbreak That Strengthens Love

    The Kind of Heartbreak That Strengthens Love

    I shouldn’t have, but I did it anyway. Her texts caught my eye as I stood behind her seat in the crowded bus, swaying with every turn. She was typing to someone who clearly mattered to her. The line that hooked my attention was: “I am crying now.” The urgency in her fingers, the tightness…

  • The Answer Found Me When I Stopped Looking

    The Answer Found Me When I Stopped Looking

    This post is a reflection on joy, identity, and the self we abandon as adults. Sitting in the middle seat of a bus, my eyes glued to my phone, I listened to my favorite comedy segment through my headphones. What began as a soft smile quickly broke into full-bodied, uncontrollable laughter. People around me glanced…

  • Motherhood Made Me Choose My Lies Carefully

    Motherhood Made Me Choose My Lies Carefully

    The things we do in the name of love. It was a dreadful Tuesday — the day the math teacher handed back our answer sheets. I waited for mine with the familiar knot in my stomach. When the paper finally landed on my desk, I scanned the numbers quickly. Something felt off. He had given me five…

  • Being an Empath Is Not a Superpower

    Being an Empath Is Not a Superpower

    The woman across from me on the train sobbed so hard it hurt to watch. I wanted to hug her and whisper, ‘It’ll be okay.’ But sometimes, that can be the cruelest thing to say. After countless loops of helping and carrying what was never mine, I realized that not everyone wants to be saved.…

  • The Weight I Dropped Had Nothing to Do With My Body

    The Weight I Dropped Had Nothing to Do With My Body

    They told me not to walk. So I ran a half-marathon through pain and shame, all the way back to myself. A friend from work once posted a photo to our group chat with the caption, “Guess who?” I tapped on it, expecting to laugh at something funny. Instead, I saw a woman making tea…